Lelaki Membebel

#listening to Sudirman...Pelangi Petang ( in love with this songs, don't know why, never tired of listening to it over and over again)
+ I have 2 assingments to finish and submit next week, on Monday and Wednesday, but as usual... soo lazy to do it, as today is Saturday..still in relax mode.. procrastination! I know it's bad but....errr...hmmm u know la kan..hohooh..
+today activities, we supposed to go outing to Tasik UTP, but then, since it's raining, so we decided to only hang out at the cafe..makan aiskerim huhu

from left: Tyah, Me, Anis, Roisah, Farhana Musa

more pictures in facebook..

+back to the topic, 'lelaki membebel' actually this topic suddenly pop-out by a friend of mine yg bertanya...

"Tak bolehkah lelaki membebel?"

so.....what do you think? 

membebel selalu suites best with women kan...I mean, ya lah, tak kata pon yg guys cannot membebel, but usually societies memadankan women dgn membebel..dari memebebel dgn guys..so...?

bkn tak boleh lelaki ni membebel, well tu tandanya dye care la kpd orang tu kan? <---orang cakap...

my mom, my teachers even most people also said the same things, 'membebel tu tandanya syg'  erk?

orang tak membebel saja-saja, membebel sebagai hobi? tak ada kot! membebel tu mestilah sebab dya tak puas hati, ada benda yang dya pandang tak kena, like for example...

'kalau balik rumah, anak dara balik lewat malam, mak mesti membebel, bila dya start membebel,for sure, all those crime cases heard on the newspapers and TV will come out from her mouth and some mothers will imagine those things happened to her beloved daughter, then goes more worries and 'dramas' of coz! the more worry she get, the more she will membebel. right?' 

so conclusion, kat sini....ur mom sees the issues of anak dara pulang lewat as something yg dye x puas hati, then dye jd risau, gelabah, byk membebel.

ok...this is only my opinion..................

so, for my view la kan....actually no matter lelaki ke perempuan, masing2 ada hak bersuara, ada lah juga hak untuk membebel ya tak? sbb membebel pon falls dlm catergory 'bersuara' sbb menggunakan suara(obviously) sometimes,org membebel tu for good, kdg2 ada jugak yg mcm aku ni..membebel sbb suka ahahha..ada kah? penat kot! then, kalau mak ayah anda membebel, tandanya mereka sayang, kalau diorang tak membebel tu, anda harus rasa risau! kalau kawan2, adik beradik ke org tersayang membebel tu maknanya dya aware with what you do, dya sayang dengan anda dan care dengan anda...ingat senang ke untuk someone yang bukan ibu bapa kita nak membebel ambil berat psal kita sedangkan diri dia pon blm tentu dya jaga dgn baek.. huhu, lebih baik dya tdor, x pon njoy dari ambil tahu psl kita kan? huiyo..bersyukur lah selagi ada org yang sudi membebel untuk anda...erk? tapi kalau rimas dengan dibebel, kot la, selalu sgt dibebel kan, ada la slh mana2 tu..hmm kena pandai2 urus la ye, nak sumbat mulut orang yang membebel tu ke apa ka, tu atas risiko sendiri2 ...okeys, as usual...she talked a lot! pen off!